Is an unexpected call saying my child or grandchild is in trouble and needs money a scam?
Almost certainly yes. Family emergency scams exploit fear and urgency to prevent you from verifying before sending money.
Last reviewed: 1 June 2026
Explanation
The grandparent scam — now also targeting parents of adult children — involves a call from someone posing as your child, grandchild, or a person claiming to be their lawyer or police officer, saying they have been arrested, injured, or are in serious trouble. They urge you not to call the family member's regular number and to send money urgently by wire transfer, cryptocurrency, or a courier who will collect cash from your home. The emotional intensity of a worried parent or grandparent prevents rational evaluation. With AI voice cloning, the voice on the initial call may even sound like your family member. The simple defence: hang up and call your family member on their known number directly. Even if their phone is supposedly broken, another family member can verify the situation within minutes.
Common red flags
- Unexpected call from someone claiming to be a relative in serious trouble
- Told not to call the family member's usual number
- Money requested urgently by wire, crypto, or cash collection
- Voice may sound like your relative (possibly AI-cloned)
- Second caller claims to be a lawyer, police officer, or doctor
What to do now
- Hang up and call your family member directly on their known number
- Contact another family member to verify the situation
- Do not send money until you have personally spoken to the family member claiming to be in trouble
- Report the call to your national fraud authority
Frequently asked questions
What if the voice really did sound like my grandchild?
AI can clone a voice from public social media audio. The voice alone is no longer proof of identity. Always independently verify through a known contact number, even if this takes a few minutes longer.